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MUSC
gave us a precious gift—time
by Tom Poland
Special to The Catalyst
About 225 miles separate Charleston and Lincolnton, Ga. Between April
2002 and May 2003, my family made the pilgrimage to Charleston many times
hoping to save my desperately ill father, John Poland.
We set up a base camp in a Mount Pleasant extended- stay hotel and crossed
the great bridges daily, making our way to Parking Lot G.
We recall our pilgrimages with love, hope, sadness, and deep appreciation
for the Medical University of South Carolina.
My family grew to love 10 East and its wonderful nurses who were so
caring to Dad. He stayed in a spacious room with crown molding and an adjoining
room with sofa, TV, sink, and small refrigerator—yet another home away
from home during the long summer of 2002.
A Wonderful Doctor
Dad’s illness, which proved terrible beyond description, first
showed itself in a common way. Choking, he got up from the table and went
outside, unable to swallow. In time, he feared eating. He lost weight.
Month by month it worsened. He couldn't even sip liquids.
Doctors in Augusta, Ga., dilated Dad’s esophagus several times and
eventually operated on him … all to no avail. Meanwhile he lost weight
and we lost precious time. After 14 months we requested another opinion.
We were told we could consult a specialist in Cleveland, Ohio, or one at
MUSC.
One April morning, my sister and I drove Mom and Dad to Boyd Gillespie,
M.D., in the East Cooper Medical Complex. I was surprised by his youth
but more so by his bedside manner. We knew at once he was a special doctor
and a special man.
“Dr. Gillespie,” I said, outside the receiving room where Mom and Dad
sat, “You’ve got to help this man. He’s starving to death before our eyes.”
“I’ll see what I can do,” Gillespie said. In about three hours we were
admitted to MUSC’s tenth floor—oncology. Dad was malnourished and very
underweight.
A day and a half later as a feeding tube was inserted, Gillespie took
another look into Dad’s throat and saw a granular mass of tissue. That
afternoon he told us Dad had esophageal cancer—squamous cell carcinoma.
Dad was too weak to withstand surgery, so we returned to Georgia
while he regained enough weight and strength to endure what would be a
lengthy, dangerous oper-ation.
Shortly before his operation, Michael Noone, M.D., told Dad his early
years smoking had hurt him. Dad also served in Hiroshima right after the
atomic bomb destroyed the Japanese. In a time when we didn’t understand
radiation as we do today, Dad walked across soil hot with gamma rays, something
that came back to haunt him.
An All-out War
In July 2002, Gillespie, Noone, and Mark Block, M.D., removed Dad’s
tumor, esophagus, and larynx in a lengthy operation—almost 12 hours—that
resulted in a stoma and stomach resection so he could eat on his own. We
maintained a vigil in a seventh floor waiting room with our minister and
friends while the surgical team waged all-out war on Dad’s cancer.
In the many days during Dad’s recovery, we took slow walks with him
to the tenth floor visitor’s room. We’d creep down the long corridor, dragging
the IV unit behind him. We’d stand before huge windows and look out over
the city with its beautiful white steeples and green live oaks. To the
left we could see the Ashley, to the right the Cooper, and sometimes we
could pick out pelicans soaring near the bridges.
In the months to come, despite surgery and radiation, Dad’s cancer
returned. He had another operation at MUSC, and this time we crossed our
fingers and prayed with all our strength. Again, the cancer returned. Dad
elected to undergo chemotherapy, but it took a terrible toll on him and
near the end he made a choice: no more chemo, no matter what.
As the disease progressed and he watched his body waste away, Dad took
his suffering in stride and you could not help but admire his courage.
Each day he would pray “Thank you God for my family and thank you for another
day of life.”
Like Family
Dad came to love MUSC. Our whole family did, and especially Gillespie,
who in a way became like another son to Dad, who baked cakes for Dr. G
(as we came to call him.) The survival rates for esophageal cancer aren’t
good, and we winced at the terrible pain racking Dr. G. as he had to give
us bad news time and time again.
MUSC and its wonderful doctors and nurses became an extended family
to us. Anand Sharma, M.D., and Tess Morris at the Hollings Cancer Center
hold special places in our hearts as does Block.
What matters is this: without MUSC we would have lost Dad in July 2002.
MUSC gave us a rare gift, an extra 15 months of precious time. We are MUSC
ambassadors, and we waste no opportunity to tell others what a professional,
caring place it is. We tell them this: You don’t have to travel the country
for outstanding medical expertise. You need only make a pilgrimage to the
Holy City.
Friday, April 9, 2004
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