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Mortuary Services helps those left
behind
by
Heather Woolwine
Public
Relations
Whether death is expected or not, loved ones experience grief. Some may
not be privy to the many details related to placing a cherished
individual’s remains to rest. These unknown details can serve as
sources of anxiety and stress on top of grief. At MUSC, the Decedent
Affairs/Mortuary Services team stands ready to care for those left
behind.
“Many people are uncomfortable talking about death or dealing with it
in general,” said Bob Gregowicz, Mortuary Services assistant
coordinator and licensed funeral director. “We can’t make death a good
experience, but we can definitely make it more comfortable by moving
things along smoothly... so the family may find closure.”
Mortuary Services' goal is to ensure that all people and units involved
with a death are notified and coordinated to promote the seamless
release of the deceased from MUSC in the least amount of time.
“A lot of stereotypes persist about people who work in Mortuary
Services, that all they do is push bodies on stretchers,” said Vinnie
Della Speranza, Anatomic Pathology manager. “However, they serve as the
primary contact for all South Carolina coroners (MUSC must provide
storage for all coroners who lack storage availability or
capabilities). As the primary contact point for all death activities at
MUSC, they coordinate all medical/forensic autopsies, and they
coordinate with outside agencies and funeral homes across the state to
make sure that the deceased are carefully returned to the proper
destination. They are experts in legal paperwork that pertains to death
and what is needed to send bodies to other states or out of the
country. Their job is so much more than arriving to pick up someone who
has died.”
Most families are unfamiliar with legal and logistical particulars
associated with death, and they need to know what should happen next in
order to move the process along. As the most informed staff concerning
these matters, the Mortuary Services team can provide answers to almost
any question that comes up.
“All of our families are grateful to know that we are taking good care
of their loved one once they are able to leave the hospital following
that person’s death,” said Julius Fielding, Mortuary Services
coordinator and licensed funeral director. “Mortuary Services is not a
service for the dead; it is a service for the living. Death can be very
traumatic, and it is our job to make a family’s memory picture as
positive as it can be. We don’t want to add negativity to what is
already a difficult thing to go through. We want to be remembered as
people who helped ease the pain and anxiety about what happens next,
and for helping with the arrangements.”
A
unique service
Between Fielding and Gregowicz, the two men offer more than 40 years of
experience in helping families navigate the issues attached to death.
Most hospitals do not have a mortuary services team with licensed
funeral directors. Consequently, many nurses and other staff members
throughout the hospital have an incorrect or incomplete picture of
MUSC's Mortuary Services. “We want people to think of us as part of the
hospital team,” Gregowicz said. “We are providing continuity of care
for the patient by caring for their living relatives. We’re more than
we appear to be. Nurses and people working on the units have so much
responsibility and so much to do. They can leave the responsibility of
helping a family through the arrangements and paperwork by calling us.
They don’t need to worry about it; that’s why we’re here and what we’re
trained to do.”
In fact, a complication that often arises for the Mortuary Services
team involves staff trying to answer questions about death
certificates, funeral homes, or other logistical matters. Confusion and
delays in releasing a family’s loved one are the result.
“There really is no need for nurses or physicians to try and locate
funeral homes, or make statements regarding procedures that they are
not totally sure about,” Fielding said. “We are prepared for about
anything and have knowledge ranging from the funeral homes in
South Carolina to specific religious and cultural services and how
those services might influence how we handle the body.”
“Sometimes families have questions and they don’t know who to ask. They
aren’t going to necessarily discuss their financial situation with a
nurse, in terms of paying for a funeral, as they will with a funeral
director. Mortuary Services personnel have resources available
to offer families that are limited in financial resources,”
Gregowicz added.
Another complication that arises is untimely notification of death on a
unit. While some staff believe a mortuary attendant will immediately
take the person away, others wait to call the team because they are
concerned about the family having enough time with the body. Both
groups, according to Mortuary Services staff, are misled in these
assumptions.
“We are trained not to approach families unless the timing is right.
Each death is unique and presents different obstacles to getting
remains released in a timely fashion. Coordination with nursing units
and chaplains is key to insuring that bereaved relatives have ample
time with the body to gain closure. We never hurry that process along,”
Gregowicz said. “It can create big problems if we are notified long
after a person has died. Family members who need information from us,
and us from them, have gone home. They are the only ones who can answer
specific questions needed to process important documentation to release
the body in a timely manner. Without a death certificate, family
members cannot start dealing with things like insurance, a will, access
to bank accounts, burial, cremation and other things related to death.
When these situations happen, it can contribute to lengthy delays and
require a lot of detective work on our part.” Ideally, mortuary service
team members would be contacted as soon as death becomes imminent.
“We each have our own view of the death process based on cultural,
religious or societal beliefs,” Speranza said. “Some nurses might think
that a conversation with a mortuary services staff member is
inappropriate following a death, and they are trying to protect their
patients, but patients don’t need to be protected from the mortuary
services team. They are there to help.”
“We’re trained to be empathetic instead of sympathetic. Nurses often
become very attached to their patients, so they are grieving too. I
have become somewhat desensitized to the process so that gives me a
little edge in dealing with it on a daily basis,” Fielding said. “I
can’t do anything for the deceased, but I can help the living.”
The MUSC Mortuary Services team also provides autopsy services for nine
counties in South Carolina and handles probate court cases involving
people who die with no next of kin. “We view our profession as a
singularly sacred and confidential calling that is done hundreds of
times a year in a most professional and exact manner,” Gregowicz said.
Fielding added, “We face death every day so we can make a difference
for living families.”
To reach Mortuary Services, call 792-0590, and enter pager number 17025.
Friday, May 25, 2007
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